It’s International Fetish Day on January 21st, so celebrate all those kinks and fetishes that make life so fun!
In some circles, kinks and fetishes may still be taboo topics of discussion, but engaging with them can offer both pleasure and an opportunity to learn new things. The purpose of this article is to explain why these aspects of sexuality can bring joy, and why they are still somewhat subtle topics of discussion in society.
What is International Fetish Day?
International Fetish Day celebrates and raises awareness of the many different types of fetishes around the world. Whether it’s fetishizing a certain body part, an article of clothing, or a specific activity, people of all walks of life can come together and celebrate their unique interests.
This year’s International Fetish Day January 21st. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned vet, there are plenty of events happening around the world to help you get your kink on. Check out our roundup of some of the best events happening for International Fetish Day below!
History of Fetishism
The history of fetishism is often debated and shrouded in mystery, but there are certain key events and periods that are widely accepted by scholars. Fetishism as a sexual practice is thought to have originated in Africa, with early evidence of people using bones, shells, and other natural objects as sexual aides.
During the height of the slave trade in the 1500-1800s, many African slaves were brought to Europe and the Americas. It’s believed that during this time, some slaves began to develop fetishes for their masters or other authority figures. This was likely due to the power dynamic between slave and master, as well as the fact that many slaves were sexually abused by their captors.
Fetishism continued to grow in popularity throughout the 19th century, with increased exposure through travel and exploration. Japan was particularly known for its erotic art, which often featured fetishized images of feet, shoes, and other objects. In Europe, meanwhile, fashionable women began adorning themselves with items like gloves and fans, which soon became sexualized objects for many men.
By the early 20th century, fetishism had become more openly accepted in mainstream society. S&M clubs began to emerge in cities like London and New York, while pornography featuring fetish content became increasingly available. Today,fetishism is more popular than ever before, with a wide range of sub-genres and practitioners all around the world.
International Fetish Day
International Fetish Day is celebrated annually on the first Saturday of January. It is a day to celebrate and promote fetishes and fetishism around the world.
There are many different types of fetishes, and people celebrated them in different ways. Some people may choose to spend the day alone, indulging in their favorite fetish activities. Others may choose to spend time with friends or partners, exploring new fetishes or enjoying old favorites. Still others may choose to use the day as an opportunity to educate others about fetishes and fetishism.
No matter how you choose to celebrate, remember to be safe, consensual, and respectful of all involved.
Common Types of Fetishes
There are many different types of fetishes around the world, but some are more common than others. Here are a few of the most common fetishes:
-Foot fetish: This is probably the most well-known type of fetish. People who have a foot fetish tend to be attracted to feet, and often enjoy activities such as massaging, kissing, and licking them.
-Clothing fetish: Some people are attracted to certain types of clothing, such as lingerie or uniforms. They may enjoy the feel of certain fabrics or the way certain clothing looks on their body.
-Body modification fetish: This can include anything from piercings and tattoos to amputation and body modification. People with this type of fetish often find the sight of blood or gore arousing.
-Bondage and restraint fetish: Bondage refers to the act of restraining someone using ropes, handcuffs, or other materials. People who have this type of fetish may enjoy being restrained themselves, or they may get pleasure from restraining someone else.
-Object fixation: Also known as objectum sexualis, this is when someone becomes sexually fixated on an inanimate object. It could be anything from a shoe to a piece of furniture.
-Voyeurism: Voyeurism is the act of watching others without their knowledge or consent. People with this fetish may enjoy watching people have sex, changing clothes, or engaging in other activities that they find arousing.
-Exhibitionism: This is the opposite of voyeurism, as people with exhibitionism fetishes want to be seen while they’re performing sexual acts. They may also enjoy dressing in revealing clothing or performing provocative acts in public.
-Roleplay: This is when someone acts out a fantasy or scenario with their partner. People who have this type of fetish may enjoy activities such as being dominant or submissive, dressing up in costumes, or playing out different roles.
-Food: Food fetishes involve using food or beverages during sex or sexual activities. People may get aroused by the taste, texture, smell, or look of certain foods. Other people may become aroused by watching someone else eat or handle food in a sexual way.
-Vampirism: People with this type of fetish are sexually aroused by the idea of biting and being bitten. They may also enjoy activities such as drinking blood and engaging in BDSM rituals.
Popular Kinks for Couples
There are many popular kinks for couples to enjoy together. Below are some of the most popular kinks enjoyed by couples:
1. Bondage – One partner is restrained while the other is free to do as they please. This can be an erotic and exciting experience for both partners.
2. Dominance and submission – One partner takes on a dominate role while the other submits. This can involve sexual acts, but doesn’t have to.
3. Watersports – Also known as piss play or golden showers, this kink involves one partner urinating on the other. It can be combined with bondage for an even more intense experience.
4. Spanking – One partner spanks the other, typically on the bottom or buttocks. This can be done for pleasure or punishment and can be combined with other kinks like bondage or dominance and submission.
5. Foot fetish – One partner enjoys kissing, licking, massaging or otherwise playing with their partner’s feet. This can be combined with other activities like spanking or Watersports for added pleasure.
Benefits of Exploring Kinks/Fetishes
When it comes to kinks and fetishes, there are a lot of different opinions out there. Some people are all for exploring their kinks and fetishes, while others think that it’s best to keep things vanilla. However, there are a few good reasons why you should explore your kinks and fetishes.
For one, it can help you learn more about yourself sexually. You may be surprised at what you’re into or not into when you start exploring your kinks and fetishes. It can also help add some spice to your sex life if things have been feeling a little bland lately. Trying new things in the bedroom (or wherever else you might be having sex) can be a great way to keep things exciting.
Another benefit of exploring your kinks and fetishes is that it can help improve communication with your partner (or partners). Discussing your fantasies and desires can help bring you closer together and make sure that everyone is on the same page sexually. This communication can also come in handy if you ever run into any problems during sex, as you’ll be more likely to feel comfortable talking about them if you’ve already discussed them beforehand.
So, if you’re curious about exploring your kinks and fetishes, go for it! You might just be surprised at how much fun you have.
Mental Health Considerations
When discussing BDSM, it is important to consider the mental health of all involved parties. For some people, BDSM can be a way to explore their darkest desires and fantasies in a safe and consensual way. However, for others, BDSM may be a source of anxiety or stress.
If you are considering engaging in BDSM activities, it is important to first assess your own mental health and wellbeing. If you have any history of mental illness or trauma, you may want to consult with a therapist before proceeding. It is also important to discuss your interests and boundaries with your partner(s) beforehand so that everyone is on the same page.
Engaging in BDSM can be a very rewarding experience, but it is not for everyone. If you have any concerns about your mental health, please consult with a professional before pursuing any sort of kinky activity.
How to Discuss and Get Started with Kinks/Fetishes
When it comes to discussing kinks and fetishes, it’s important to be open and honest with your partner. Talk about what turns you on and why, and be respectful of your partner’s boundaries. If you’re both interested in exploring each other’s kinks, start by trying something small and safe. For example, if you’re into bondage, try using handcuffs or scarves to restrain your partner’s hands or feet during sex. Fetishes can be a fun and exciting way to spice up your sex life, so have fun experimentation!
International Fetish Day is an important day for all members of the fetish community. It’s a time to celebrate and honor all aspects of human sexuality and encourage acceptance, appreciation, exploration and expression. While International Fetish Day may not be remembered or celebrated by everyone in society, it is certainly important to those that identify with fetishism worldwide. On this day we remind ourselves that no form of sexual expression should ever be judged – only welcomed with open arms.
